Sexually Addicted? 10 Essential Concerns to AskSexually Addicted? 10 Essential Concerns to Ask

There are lots of things in our culture that grab us and won’t let go. Sometimes sex is one of them. Maybe that holds true for you or your spouse/partner.

Sexual dependency plays a popular function in the “I Can’t Say No” type of extramarital affair I lay out in my E-book, “Break Devoid Of the Affair.”

These concerns are planned to assist you be more familiar with some behaviors that possibly suggest that sex has a hold on you. , if you answer yes to three or more concerns it most likely is sensible to take a more detailed look at the location of sex in your life.

1) Do I have sex at unsuitable times, improper locations and/or with the wrong people?

2) Do I make promises to myself or rules for myself concerning my sexual habits that I discover I can not follow?

3) Have I lost count of the variety of sexual partners I’ve had in the past 3 years?

4) Do I make love no matter the effects (e.g. the hazard of being captured, the risk of contracting herpes, gonorrhea, AIDS, and so on)?

5) Do I feel uneasy about my masturbation, the fantasies I engage in, the props I utilize, and/or the locations in which I do it?

6) Do I feel jaded, tired, cynical? Am I on the path to that?

7) Do I feel that my life is uncontrollable because of my sexual behavior?

8) Do I have sex as a method to deal with or escape from life’s problems? DoI feel entitled to sex? Do I feel as though I have earned sex?

9) Do I have a serious relationship ruined or threatened because of outdoors sex on my part?

10) Do I feel that my sexual life impacts my spiritual life in a negative way?